Sofie has been home now for 4 months! Where has the time gone? Our baby is not the same frail, infant sized kid that we took out of the orphanage 4.5 months ago. She is still teeny tiny, but she has some meat on her bones and a roundness to her little body! I love it! When I do “squishy’s” on her after baths my fingers no longer touch so easily when I wrap my hands around her limbs and “squish” the lotion down. She ends in fits of laughter every time I do it! She is now 23 lbs. That is up about 3.5 pounds! One pound since last month. There has been a bit of up and down in her weight but she’s been increasing about a pound a month. We have a follow up with her pediatrician in January so I’ll hopefully get a clearer idea about what the her goal weight is and at what rate.
I think it is safe to say that the honeymoon is officially over and she is either experiencing some grief and loss of her old life or just becoming a typical moody three year old who has found her voice to be able to protest! It is most likely a combination. She throws tantrums now and whines frequently. She doesn’t like being told no. When we are firm she will bring her finger up to her mouth and curl her face up in to the saddest cry you’ve ever seen. Her tantrums usually consist of her flopping to the ground and throwing her head and arms back. Her tantrums can happen at any time but are usually reserved for us at home when we are too busy to giver her much attention or there is little stimulation. She also frequently tantrums if I have been out or away from her for a little bit and then come home. Instead of running to me, like she does with Jon or new people, she throws herself to the floor whining. I’m trying to take this as an attachment sign. Maybe she is mad at me for leaving or feeling comfortable enough with me to communicate her dislike. She definitely only reserves this behavior for me though and I’m waiting for the day she shows me that she is excited to see me but doesn’t make me feel guilty for leaving!
Sofie has continued to flourish this month and keeps showing us her new found skills and abilities. She has started to learn how to suck from a straw! This is a wonderful accomplishment. It means potential independent drinking soon! We can now give her a no-spill water bottle and have it available to her all day! Hopefully this will increase her liquid intake because currently, I think, she is probably only drinking about half the recommended liquids that she should for her weight. She has learned how to climb on the kitchen table and scare Mommy and Daddy. I see more stitches in the future! She had her first taste of Boterkoek and met Santa! She met her Uncle Sean when he came home from China. She gave Mommy and Daddy the official poop smear experience. So. Gross. Now she wears her sleep sacks backwards. She got her Care Card number finally and managed to stay healthy when everyone else in the house got the flu! Yay for having a great immune system!
I’m sure Christmas will be fun with two girls this year! I can’t wait too see how the next month goes! I love my girls so much!
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Congratulations on 4 months! I haven't been commenting tons, but I have been reading and I appreciate you sharing the joys and struggles that make up your life. Isn't it strange how some of the challenges you are facing now that seem like “bad” thing (eg.tantrums) are actually signs that you are doing everything right and that so much good is happening in Sophie's life?!